This description was written by Bill
Whalen for Carol Duncan
Hi Carol - Have you heard a report from Denis Hill's "funeral at sea"?
It was a nice affair. At 9am on a glorious Sat morning, about 7 sail
boats and Bob Lehrman's motor cruiser with Phil Phillips, our Venice
Marine Policeman, leading the procession with his lights a flashing
departed the VYC. I believe 2 or 3 other sailboats joined the
procession as we motored toward the jetty. The winds were very light
without a cloud in the very blue and clear sky. The water was flat,
just perfect for our ceremony.
As we made the 3 mile mark, with Jack and Jan Stevenson's boat in the
lead and the Hill family aboard, they pulled to off to port and the
remaining boats encircled their sailboat. We were all tuned to channel
72, and as soon as the circle was completed, Janice's voice broke the
silence and the ceremony commenced with a few words from the family.
This being my first funeral at sea, I was quite enthralled by the
entire event. It was a moving experience when the kind words ceased,
and the family all stood around the perimeter of the stern, tossing
bouquets of flower that floated on the water. Then the immediate family
members dispersed Dennis' remains into the sea. As this began, John
Lynch who was on my sailboat, Lefkada, lifted his trumpet and played a
song for the family, followed by his rendition of Taps. The only sound
was John's horn. It was a wonderful end to a lovely ceremony. Within
seconds of John's music ending, Janice returned to the radio and
advised the ceremony was over and all were invited back to the VYC for
drinks and light foods.
Everyone returned and were docked by 1030 at VYC. Several boats rafted
up alongside others with Jim Eve attached to us at Heigel Park. The
bloody mary's flowed with coffee juices breakfast rolls and pastries
and such. The gathering was comfortable and conversations flowed like
wine. Dennis Hill's daughter stood up and said a few final words about
her Dad. Shortly thereafter, about 11:30, thank-yous with additional
condolences began. By 12 noon all were gone. I think each of us
participating shared similar feelings, all very positive, and never to
be confused with other funerals we have attended and participated in
before. Simply a wonderful and unforgettable experience. Sorry you were
not here to experience the morning. I'm sure you would have felt as
moved as I.
Bill W